We’re jumping back into your questions this week and I could not be more pumped about it. This is part of a series of family chats, where people from our community here send me questions/situations and I respond with something like a letter. Quite a few of us are asking similar …
I remember it like it happened last week: my mom was, once again, venting about my dad to her teenage daughter. Eventually, I asked the obvious: “Why d…
A couple of weeks ago, Amanda and I shared that we’ve been in a process of evolving from being wives to being family more generally. I want to write a …
In his book In the Shelter, one of my all-time favorite gays, the Irish poet and theologian, Padraig Ó Tuama, writes this about his morning routine: I …
Last Tuesday, the Netflix Original documentary Pray Away was released, and with it, some of the most vulnerable parts of my life were streaming into mi…
a Q&A + a Zoom Date
One of the hardest parts of undergoing a big shift in your beliefs is that it often means you lose your closest people overnight. You wake up one day t…
Most of you probably know I’ve long been interested in questions about forgiveness. It was such a central teaching in the circles where I came of age: …
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